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Character

Employee Theft and Embezzlement

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Employee theft costs employers up to $50 billion annually and negatively affects about 95% of businesses, 75% of employees admit to stealing from their employer at least once, and 60% of employees would steal if they knew they wouldn’t get caught. Clearly the need for National Honesty Day on April 30th has never been greater.

My husband Robert is one of the 22% of small business owners to experience employee theft. The trust and responsibility held by employees in a small business put him at greater risk of being robbed.

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Robert was confident when he hired another little person we had known since she was a teenager as Secretary #7 in his rehabilitation engineering practice serving people with disabilities. He saw no reason to run a background check. Not that it would have exposed a problem; she like 96% of employee thieves had no prior fraud convictions. Robert expected her to do well with her bright personality, four-year degree, personal knowledge of disability issues, and work experience. She was in her 20s and nowhere near 49, an embezzler’s median age.

One of #7’s duties was to prepare checks for Robert’s signature. Her degree made learning the accounting program easy, but did not insulate Robert from becoming a fraud victim; 49% of employee theft is performed by those with a university degree.

After only six weeks of employment, #7 embezzled the first of 21 checks. She took advantage of being in a smaller organization where check and payment tampering is four times more likely. After seven months, #7 was fired for poor performance, unpredictable behavior, and lying. We didn’t know if she was living beyond her means or having financial difficulties, but it was evident that she coveted my new car. In hindsight, we know these were embezzlement red flags.

After #7’s termination, Robert noticed bookkeeping anomalies and requested copies of canceled checks from the bank. We were stunned to see his forged signature on checks totaling $9,164.68. She even forged a check to pay her taxes. And the reason #7 gave for stealing? She needed the money.

Only 16% of companies call the police to launch an employee theft investigation. But Robert agreed to be a support witness in the banks criminal prosecution of #7. She was arrested, charged with 21 felony counts of forgery and altering business records. Although she could have served prison time, a plea bargain led to three years’ probation, counseling, and restitution. Her father was a big part of this generous deal because his restitution payment of $4,000 persuaded the district attorney to plead the charges down to misdemeanors.

We didn’t want #7 to go to prison, but in his victim statement to the judge, Robert recommended community service hoping it would give her an appreciation of those truly in need. We were amazed when she did pay all the court-ordered restitution. The bank manager told us that this almost never happens. According to employee theft statistics, businesses typically get back less than half of their stolen money.

If you’re a victim, get help during National Crime Victims’ Rights Week, April 24-28, 2023. Contact Carla at CILO at 561-966-4288 ext. 125 or email cpazmino@cilo.org.

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This post is based on an excerpt from the second book in my dwarfism trilogy, “Pass Me Your Shoes: A Couple with Dwarfism Navigates Life’s Detours with Love and Faith.” For more information and memoir buy links, go to https://angelamuirvanetten.com where you can also subscribe to my weekly blog.

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Accessibility

Therapeutic Gardening and Accessibility

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Gardening was part of my childhood experience: picking violets at grandmas and pansies at home, eating grapes off the vine at nanas and vegetables from grandad’s garden, and admiring my aunt’s azaleas. And those gardening seeds planted in childhood propagated when I was an adult, first with apartment house plants and then outdoor gardens as a home owner.

National Gardening Day on April 14th got me digging into the merits of gardening for people with disabilities. I was drawn to the aesthetics of indoor plants, but never thought about their role in removing air contaminants and increasing humidity in dry areas. I didn’t know plants lowered my stress and blood pressure and improved my mood. For example, my snake plant that relocated with me three times had apparently eliminated air pollutants, reduced tension, and promoted relaxation.

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I knew outdoor gardening supplemented my Vitamin D intake, but had no idea the sun lowers my risk of certain cancers and other maladies. The exercise involved saves me from a gym membership, promotes sleep, helps maintain a healthy weight, reduces stress, and improves cognitive skills.

In recent years, these advantages are recognized as therapeutic horticulture used in hospitals, rehabilitation centers, senior centers, schools, and prisons. Patients with catastrophic injuries are observed to heal faster when they access outdoor spaces with plants. British primary-care doctors often give patients a “social prescription” for gardening as an effective alternative to talk therapy or antidepressants.

However, in order for me to benefit from therapeutic gardening I need a garden that accommodates my inability to kneel, touch my toes, and stand for any length of time. When designing the garden next to our front door, some plants were kept in reach as a border next to the sidewalk and others adjacent to a circular pathway around the garden interior. Underground watering was linked to the lawn sprinkler. Weeding was reduced with mulch. Dead leaves and flowers on the begonias, bromeliads, and anthuriums were plucked with salad tongs. Debris was gathered in a throw away grocery bag. Gardening for the day stopped when the bag was full.

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For 22 years my tropical garden in our Florida climate thrived. But time has left its’ mark with a broken watering system, ups and downs in the soil level, and spreading plants almost eliminating my pathway. This year’s cold spell almost wiped out some plants and many dead leaves weren’t plucked given my lack of access.

My friend Susan helped me clean up the garden, but going forward accessible features are needed. As a retiree on a fixed income, I need affordable options that don’t involve starting from scratch. To avoid kneeling, bending down, and plants spreading into the walkway, I’m exploring easy watering like a seep hose for containers and a raised bed built to my height with plants that won’t grow out of reach. Hanging planters with a pulley system would be cool. Ergonomic light weight tools with a comfortable grip and long reach range are necessary.

What accessible gardening tips can you add?

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Awareness

Dwarfs Don’t Live in Doll Houses: 35-Year Anniversary

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Written by baby boomer Angela Muir Van Etten, Dwarfs Don’t Live in Doll Houses—published in 1988—has influenced three generations of readers: baby boomers, Gen X, and millennials. The 2021 e-book release makes discovery by Gen Z possible.

Baby boomer Karen described it as “a great book with pride of place on her bookshelf.” After discovering the book in a secondhand bookstore, Millennial Clinton stated, “We picked up this gem because you learn about identity and your people in history by reading the stories and the books they write.” Jenn responded to his Facebook post saying, “I remember this book from when I was a kid!”

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Indeed the book is my history of growing up in New Zealand in the 1950s and 60s. When introducing the digital edition, I alerted readers to consider it as a time capsule for how little people and their families experienced life prior to disability civil rights laws. I anticipated that readers would recognize that despite passage of laws like the Americans with Disabilities Act, human behavior has not changed. Consequently, the book remains relevant for disability issues that continue to this day: acceptance, advocacy, attitudinal and environmental barriers, bullying, dating, dwarf tossing, employment discrimination and reasonable accommodations, inclusion in education et al.

Dwarfs Don’t Live in Doll Houses has led the way in dwarfism memoirs and is probably the first written by a little person. As noted on the back cover it’s “a unique opportunity to see personal, family, school and public life through the eyes of a dwarf from the point of view of a single person.”

At the time of it’s 1988 publication, the memoir was endorsed by a psychologist with dwarfism, Leonard Sawisch; author and anthropology professor, Joan Ablon;the Chairman of the Little People of America (LPA) Medical Advisory Board, Dr. Charles Scott, Jr., and two parents of adult children with dwarfism, LPA National Parent Coordinator, Helen Ference and Elizabeth Elder. Sawisch noted the keen insight into the dwarf experience. Scott applauded the wealth of experience and wisdom made animatedly realistic, personal, revealing and at times humorous. Ablon characterized it as a rare window into the life experiences of a dwarf child, teenager, and young adult. Elder heightened her awareness and confessed to not realistically seeing life as a little person experiences it.

Throughout the years, readers have commented favorably. One mother of a short-statured child told me, “I keep your book by my bedside and refer to it frequently.” Readers with dwarfism report finding wisdom and help. Average height work colleagues appreciated having misconceptions dispelled and being informed of everyday obstacles a little person overcomes. In January 2022, Rebecca wrote on my Goodreads page: “Very thought provoking read. Angela does a good job of bringing the reader into her life. Definitely recommend reading this book to help remind yourself not to “judge a book by it’s cover.”

So how about you? If you’re ready to grab one of the 4,000 print books originally sold, get a used copy at Amazon.com while supplies last.

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A voice for people with dwarfism & disability guided by faith and justice. https://angelamuirvanetten.com

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Awareness

Popular Children’s Books on Dwarfism

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“We all need to read books where the heroes are relatable to our own selves. It’s even more important for kids. It helps develop hope, solutions, connection and a strong sense of identity, belonging.”

Meriah Nichols, deaf mom to three children with disabilities

In honor of International Children’s Book Day on April 2nd, I compiled a list of children’s books on dwarfism in order of their popularity on Amazon. A complete booklist is available in the resources section of my website at https://angelamuirvanetten.com/resources/#childrenbooks. Please contact me if you know of books missing from the list.

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Stand Tall, Molly Lou Melon 
by Patty Lovell (Author), David Catrow (Illustrator)
August 27, 2001

Molly Lou Melon is short and clumsy. When bullied on her first day in a new school she remembers her grandmother’s advice.
Reading age: 3 – 6 years

Break the Mould: How to Take Your Place in the World
by Sinéad Burke
October 15, 2020

Drawing on her own experiences as a little person, Burke encourages readers to believe in themselves, have pride in who they are, and make the world a more inclusive place.
Reading age: ‎ 9 – 13 years

Being Small (Isn’t So Bad After All) 
by Lori Orlinsky 
February 11, 2022 

A picture book about the shortest kid in the class who is scared to go to school. Her mother instills self-confidence in her by pointing out the advantages of being short.
Reading age: ‎ 2 – 6 years

Short 
by Holly Goldberg Sloan
January 9, 2018

Julia is very short for her age, but she discovers her own sense of self when playing a munchkin in “The Wizard of Oz” after befriending Olive, an adult with dwarfism in the production.
Reading age: ‎ 8 – 12 years

The Thing About Georgie 
by Lisa Graff  
August 26, 2008

A warm and humorous novel starring an unforgettable young boy with dwarfism.
Reading age:‎ 7 – 10 years

Little Imperfections: A Tall Tale of Growing Up Different
by Peet Montzingo & Rockwell Sands 
November 1, 2022 

In this picture book, Montzingo is the only “tall” sibling in a family of little people. He addresses being different, feeling like you don’t fit in, and finding yourself.
Reading age: ‎ 4 years and up

Short Or Tall Doesn’t Matter At All
by Asaf Rozanes
February 3, 2018

This illustrated story delivers the anti-bullying message about a little girl who is picked on in school because she is short and helps young kids understand they are not alone.
Reading age: 3 – 8 years

Mummy There’s a New Girl 
by Danielle Webb
June 24, 2021

When a new girl joins the class, children pick on her for her looks, but one little boy looks past her differences and learns that really – size is no big deal!
Reading age: ‎ Baby – 7 years

Louie’s Together Playground 
by Dr. Nicole Julia (Author), Jeff Crowther (Illustrator)
January 23, 2023

Louie is a llama with dwarfism who, together with his friends, dreams up a plan to bring the very first all-inclusive playground to their town.
Reading age: 2 – 7 years

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