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Accessibility

The Long Road to Update Federal Reach Guidelines

Reach Us

People with disabilities celebrate National Disability Independence Day on July 26. And Little People of America (LPA) also celebrates July 23, 2004—the day the Access Board published a final reach range rule making public facilities more accessible to at least a half million people with dwarfism, limited upper arm strength and movement, and other disabilities.

The Access Board is an independent federal agency responsible for developing and maintaining accessibility guidelines for the construction and alteration of facilities covered by the ADA of 1990 and the Architectural Barriers Act (ABA) of 1968.

The ADA applies to places of public accommodation, commercial facilities, and State and local government facilities.

The ABA covers facilities designed, built, or altered with Federal funds or leased by Federal agencies.

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In 1994, the Access Board established an advisory committee to review and recommend changes to update the 1991 ADA Accessibility Guidelines (ADAAG). When LPA learned that the committee was tentative about recommending a reduction in the unobstructed side reach from 54 to 48 inches, Robert Van Etten and I drove almost 400 miles to a July 7, 1996 committee meeting. We fervently advocated for breaking the six-inch reach barrier. We were ecstatic when the Advisory Committee’s recommendation to the Access Board included a side reach of 48 inches!

It took another three years before the Access Board published a Notice of Proposed Rulemaking (NPRM) to jointly update and revise its ADA and ABA Accessibility Guidelines. I coordinated LPA’s advocacy in support of lowering the side-reach to 48 inches by encouraging LPA’s members, allies, and disability organizations to send comments to the federal Access Board.

Although the Access Board rejected the Advisory Committee’s 48-inch recommendation, I believe this flawed decision swayed several hundred to make comments favoring the six inch reduction. I prepared and submitted LPA’s official comments—a 25-page document that took more than 45 hours to prepare. During the NPRM comment period, LPA members also testified at public hearings in Los Angeles, California, and Arlington, Virginia.

After the public comment period closed, I represented LPA and recruited local LPA members to attend Access Board informational meetings on October 24-25, 2000, in Washington, DC. Their purpose was to determine the effect a 48-inch standard would have on manufactured equipment and newly constructed building elements. In a jaw-dropping moment, ATM manufacturers announced that their new generation of machines would meet the 48-inch standard! Our jubilance couldn’t even be dampened by the gas pump manufacturers’ continued fight for an exception.

Another four years passed before the final rule was published on July 23, 2004. Euphoria barely described the joy of finally seeing the 48-inch standard accepted in the new ADAAG. Federal law now mandated this accessible height for ATMs and everything open to the public activated with a push, pull or turn.

Yes it was disappointing to see gas pump manufacturers granted an exception for machines installed on existing curbs and allowed installation of operable parts on gas pumps as high as 54 inches. But victories are celebrated and disappointments motivate us to keep advocating for change.

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Celebrations

Third Year Blog Anniversary Favorites

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“Water Adventures.” August 8, 2022. https://angelamuirvanetten.com/water-adventures/

This post includes scenes from the second book in my dwarfism memoir trilogy, “Pass Me Your Shoes: A Couple with Dwarfism Navigates Life’s Detours with Love and Faith.”

“Finding Hugo: Our Wheelchair Accessible Van.” September 26, 2022. https://angelamuirvanetten.com/finding-hugo-our-wheelchair-accessible-van/

Mickey’s comment: “Angela you look like a pilot of a jet.”

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“Add Teeth Not Candles for Birthday of Air Carrier Access Act.” October 3, 2022. https://angelamuirvanetten.com/air-carrier-access-act/

Lissette’s comment: “I enjoy reading your blog. Through your words I have found many answers to questions I didn’t even know there could possibly be solutions / answers. Keep informing us. We appreciate you sharing your knowledge. God bless you.”

“Lessons From My 40-Year Law Career.” October 10, 2022. https://angelamuirvanetten.com/lessons-from-my-40-year-law-career/

Excerpt: “Many prospective employers can’t imagine a client having confidence in the ability of a 40-inch-tall lawyer. Thankfully, I had enough imagination for both of us.”

“Dwarfism Sensitivity & Awareness.” October 24, 2022. https://angelamuirvanetten.com/dwarfism-sensitivity-awareness/

Mark’s comment: “Good stuff on here.”

“UK Travel: Challenge, Church, and Cuisine.” October 31, 2022. https://angelamuirvanetten.com/uk-travel-challenge-church-and-cuisine/

Excerpt: “We felt the access challenges were worth it to soak in more British culture and cuisine. Did it really matter that we had to leave our [bed and breakfast] bedroom door ajar because we couldn’t reach the door handle?”

“MAKING PUBLIC COMMENTS: Time Wasted or Well Spent?” November 7, 2022. https://angelamuirvanetten.com/making-public-comments-time-wasted-or-well-spent/

This post is based on events discussed in the third book of my dwarfism memoir trilogy, “ALWAYS AN ADVOCATE: Champions of Change for People with Dwarfism and Disabilities.” https://angelamuirvanetten.com/always-an-advocate/.

“Why Are You So Short? Is the Answer in the Genes?” November 21, 2022. https://angelamuirvanetten.com/why-are-you-so-short-is-the-answer-in-the-genes/

Excerpt: “Every day little people are asked to explain why they’re so short. But let’s pivot to a more important question. Is it legal to use genetic information against people whose genes identify a disability?”

“Disabled Caught In Homeless Crisis.” December 19, 2022. https://angelamuirvanetten.com/disabled-caught-in-homeless-crisis/

Excerpt: “People with disabilities make up almost one quarter of the half million plus homeless in America. . . The magnitude of the crisis mandates that we “Give justice to the poor and the orphan; uphold the rights of the oppressed and the destitute.” Psalm 82:3, New Living Translation.

“Defendants Feign Ignorance When Hit With ADA Complaints.” January 30, 2023. https://angelamuirvanetten.com/defendants-feign-ignorance-when-hit-with-ada-complaints/

Excerpt: “31 years after the ADA’s January 26, 1992 effective date, we’re expected to believe defendants don’t know wheelchairs can’t climb steps, people using walkers and canes have trouble opening heavy doors, and little people can’t reach high counters!” 

“Dwarfs Don’t Live in Doll Houses: 35-Year Anniversary.” April 10, 2023. https://angelamuirvanetten.com/dwarfs-dont-live-in-doll-houses-35-year-anniversary/

Because human behavior has not changed, the e-book remains relevant for ongoing disability issues and serves as a time capsule for how little people and their families experienced life prior to disability civil rights laws.

“Barrier Removal Beats Awareness.” May 8, 2023. https://angelamuirvanetten.com/barrier-removal-beats-awareness/

Carol’s comment: I’m 4’6.” I once put in a complaint at a supermarket about POS machines attached to the checkout counter above my view. I had asked how people in wheelchairs managed, and the assistant tried to tell me they raised themselves on one hand and did it with the other. “NO they don’t,” I declared.

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Celebrations

Unforgettable 60th Birthday in Alaska

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Robert on apron deck between carriages on White Pass & Yukon Route Railway in Alaska

As a nod to Alaska’s State flower—the Forget-Me-Not—we remember Robert’s unforgettable 60th belated birthday celebration cruising with friends Rick and Bette from Vancouver, Canada to Whittier, Alaska. This was a definite upgrade for Robert and Bette’s tradition of celebrating their same age birthdays together.

In Glacier Bay, we all bundled up to enjoy the view and sound of glaciers calving while sipping hot chocolate on our cabin balcony.

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Birthday buddies on ship balcony

We enjoyed our dinners in the supposedly sold out dining room with assigned seating and a personal waiter. Rick credits Robert and me scootering up at just the right moment for four seats to miraculously materialize.

Disembarking and boarding from a ten story ship was complicated by the rise and fall of the tide. Riding down the gangway on the scooter could be a gentle slope on departure and a steep incline on the return several hours later. Despite the gangway slope being reduced by attaching to higher or lower ship decks, it could still be so steep that the scooter teetered at the top! Nonetheless, several crew ensured we boarded safely.

At our first stop in Ketchikan, the cold August temperature required dressing in layers. The downside came when it was time to go to the bathroom and peel off all those layers. We spent our shore time appreciating the world’s oldest collection of native American totem poles and the Great Alaskan Lumberjack Show. Robert felt much older than 60 seated in the outdoor bleachers when staff gave him a woollen lap blanket akin to those used in nursing homes.

In Juneau—Alaska’s capital city—our local tour guide was a relative of Robert’s brother-in-law. He had great insights on how to survive in Alaska. The tip that sticks with me is “cotton kills, wool warms.” In bringing us to the Mendenhall Glacier he lamented how global warming was shrinking the glacier. Indeed glaciologist, Mike Hekkers, reported that for 20 years the glacier has retreated over 160 feet per year.

In Skagway we tackled an incline that rivaled the ship’s gangway. After boarding the White Pass & Yukon Route Railway, the train climbed grades of up to 3.9 percent to ascend 2,865 feet in only 20 miles. Completed in 1900, the railroad was built in treacherous conditions during the Klondike Gold Rush to link the Yukon and other booming gold-mining districts with tidewater at Skagway.

This narrow gauge railroad is an International Historic Civil Engineering landmark comparable to the Eiffel tower, Statue of Liberty and Panama Canal. Just as significant to us was the carriage equipped with a wheelchair lift and, for our amusement, “handicapped eating” presumably intended as “disabled seating” since there was no food service.

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Train carriages winding their way along the ledge of a rock faced cliff above and below

Our cruise ended in Whittier. Robert’s cousin Carol not only met us at the terminal, but also for the first time. Carol and her two dogs graciously welcomed us as a guest in their home in Anchorage and played tour guide for a few days.

How about you? Any unforgettable birthdays or destinations?

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Independence

Fighting for Independence

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This July 4th as we reflect on America’s independence, let’s consider the fight for independence continuing for people with disabilities.

My parents understood right from the start that it was vital to my development as an independent mature person that I be treated according to my age not my size. This meant not being given a pass on chores, discipline, or responsibilities. In their wisdom, they didn’t fuss over or do everything for me.

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As a result, I loved the independence of going when and where I wanted when I started driving at age 18. The only problem was that this car was a machine that had to be fueled, watered, oiled, lubed, aired, and cleaned. I never had to think about such things before. Now it was my responsibility and dad insisted that I look after the car myself. One day our different views on the subject clashed.

Mo, a family friend, noticed that one of the tires needed air and offered to take the car to the garage for me. I was about to let him, when dad butted in and said, “No Angela, you take it to the garage yourself.” I was fuming. What did it have to do with dad anyway? Mo was willing to take it, so why not let him? But there was no chance of that now, dad had said enough for Mo to withdraw his offer. I had no choice but to take the tire in myself.

It didn’t take me long to realize that dad was right. I had to learn how to look after my own car. Along with the privilege of driving, came the responsibility of caring for it. This was the beginning of achieving independence for myself as an adult and laid the groundwork for advancing independence for others.

A subtle challenge to independence comes from those who insist on helping people with disabilities when we don’t need it. We must stand firm against such offers so as not to erode our independent living skills or give in to patronization. In the times we do need help, we will ask for it.

As discussed in my dwarfism memoir trilogy, I have supported independent living principles through my marriage, career and volunteerism. For example:

  • I joined forces with Robert Van Etten, a rehabilitation engineer and my husband, who worked to improve the independence of individuals with disabilities at home, on the job, and in public places through environmental changes and adaptive equipment.
  • I served as a board member of a Center for Independent Living in Cleveland, Ohio and was appointed by Florida’s governor to serve on the Florida Independent Living Council.
  • I was a coordinator and advocacy specialist for the Coalition for Independent Living Options in Stuart, Florida.
  • As a volunteer with LPA, I led the charge for little people—and a half million others whose disability involved a reach limitation—to gain independent use of public facilities such as ATMs, bathrooms, elevators, and gas pumps.

What can you add about the disability fight for independence?

This post is drawn from excerpts and concepts in my dwarfism memoir trilogy, https://angelamuirvanetten.com:

  • ALWAYS AN ADVOCATE: Champions of Change for People with Dwarfism and Disabilities
  • PASS ME YOUR SHOES: A Couple with Dwarfism Navigates Life’s Detours with Love and Faith
  • Dwarfs Don’t Live in Doll Houses
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Etiquette

HANDSHAKES: Purpose, Etiquette, and Alternatives

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The handshake is an ancient greeting dating back to 900 BC to seal alliances and 500 BC to convey peace and confirm the absence of a weapon. Centuries later, the Quakers handshake communicated a sense of equality between the parties. Today, handshakes are used to welcome, accept, honor, respect, congratulate, and express peace, goodwill, or gratitude.

For people with dwarfism, the handshake also represents what little people are looking for in society—acceptance, equality, and respect. Nobody has expressed this better than Paul Steven Miller, Equal Employment Opportunity Commissioner (1994-2004):

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“Little people are looking for a handshake not a handout.”

At four-feet-five-inches, Miller was initially denied a welcome handshake from prospective employers. After graduating from Harvard law school, 45 law firms denied him equal treatment, ignored his credentials, and failed to offer him a job. One employer shamelessly disclosed fear that his presence in the law firm would cause clients to mistake the office for a circus freak show! (All this prior to Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) protections.)

Although job discrimination is still widespread, in post ADA America, applicants with dwarfism now enter an interview room standing on solid legal ground. Nonetheless a candidate at an in-person job interview must still convince an employer that they are the right person for the position. A good handshake can help deliver this message.

According to the founders of National Handshake Day—celebrated on June 29—when two people shake hands, especially when eye contact is made, they are more likely to have a personal connection and relate positively to the other person. CareerBuilder.com adds that shaking hands, makes people twice as likely to remember you than if you didn’t shake hands. Even though little people don’t need any help getting people to remember us, our handshake must still stand up to scrutiny and not make a bad impression.

A handshake needs to strike the right balance. A firm handshake reflects a confident personality, but a tight grip is too aggressive. In contrast, a floppy handshake projects insincerity or weakness. Yet a soft hold with no eye contact is preferred in East Asian nations.

As a little person with arthritic hands and finger joints I have regularly regretted responding to a handshake gesture. The pain inflicted lingers long after the greeter lets go my hand. Consequently, as politely as possible, I reluctantly buck etiquette and decline to reciprocate. However, I avoid disrespecting the person extending their hand to me by explaining my predicament and offering an alternative greeting.

The fist and elbow bumps popularized during the COVID-19 pandemic has made it easier for people to accept alternative greetings. Other no-contact greetings include:

  • Hand over heart: placing your right hand over your heart.
  • Wai bow: palms pressed together and a small head bow so that your fingers touch the gap between your eyebrows.
  • Shaka sign: three middle fingers folded down while the pinky and thumb are pointed upward and then shaking your hand back and forth.

So what’s in vogue in your world: handshakes or alternate greetings?

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    “STAY SAFE:” Avoid Slips, Trips, and Falls

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    During National Safety Month, the National Safety Council (NSC) designated one week in June to focus on staying safe from slips, trips, and falls. This caught my attention given my being banded as a fall risk when checking into an outpatient clinic or during a hospital stay. And according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), my past falls have doubled my chances of falling again.

    Did you know that falls are the second leading cause of unintentional injury-related death? According to Injury Facts®, 42,114 people died in falls at home and at work in 2020 and account for almost one-third of non-fatal injuries in the U.S. Nearly seven million people seek emergency room treatment for a fall and 20 percent are seriously injured.

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    Although falling is prevalent among seniors, this post focuses on the fall risk among little people. Although I don’t have data on how many of us are falling, I suspect the fall risk is greater than in the average population. Several factors and conditions contribute to our risk, including the following:

    1. Physiological
    • Impairment in the lower body due to spinal issues or orthopedic limitations. For example, my knees and ankles are fused so I can’t catch myself when I trip.
    • Foot conditions like pain, neuropathy, and hard-to-find well-fitting footwear.
    • Balance problems.
    • Use of mobility devices.
    • Vision problems like retinal detachments.
    • Lack of sleep due to sleep apnea or pain, for example.

    2. Environmental

    • Clutter.
    • Throw rugs or loose carpet.
    • Uneven walking surfaces, like pavers or cracked concrete.
    • Cords on the floor or jutting into the path of travel.
    • Poor lighting.
    • Stairs that are broken, uneven, or without handrails.

    3. Pharmaceutical Agents

    • Taking five or more medications per day.
    • Tranquilizers to treat anxiety and insomnia.
    • Narcotics taken for acute or severe pain.
    • Antihistamine side effects causing drowsiness and reduced coordination, reaction speed and judgment.
    • Over-the-counter medicines affecting balance and gait.

    The good news is that with appropriate interventions little people can drastically reduce the risk of falling.

    Physiological contributors can be mitigated with assistive devices like a cane or walker; sensible shoes that fit well, give good support, and have nonskid soles; grab bars for the shower or tub; a shower chair and hand-held shower nozzle. Exercise can improve strength, balance, coordination and flexibility. Annual vision checks and eyeglass updates are key to spotting and avoiding perilous situations.

    Environmental hazards can be reduced by clearing the floor of anything someone might trip on—clutter, electrical and phone cords, small furniture, throw rugs, and the like. Immediately repair loose, wooden floorboards or carpeting, and clean spilled liquids, grease or food. Install handrails on both sides of a stairway. Maintain good lighting indoors and out. Limit the need for stools by keeping things used often on lower shelves. Use stools with a handle to hold onto. Never stand on chairs, tables or any surface with wheels.

    Pharmaceutical risks can be eased by a doctor or pharmacist medication review.

    What fall prevention tips can you add?

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    Time to Toss and Replace BMI for Dwarfism

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    According to USA Facts, 43% of Americans are obese. And according to my Body Mass Index (BMI) fat measurement, I am obese. Now that’s a label I refuse to accept.

    The first one to tag me as obese and tell my doctor that “optimizing the patient’s BMI is clinically indicated” was the pulmonologist who diagnosed me with Sleep Apnea. He’d never laid eyes on me, but calculated my BMI as 32.08 based on my weight of 73 lbs (33 kgs) and height of 3’4” (101.6 cms). (A BMI of 30 or greater rates as obese.)

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    Some Little People have been declined surgery until they reduce their BMI. When employer wellness tests identify obesity based on an employee’s BMI, insurance can be denied or premiums increased. Anxiety episodes can be triggered and serious body image issues can develop.

    As 33-year-old Sammy said, “There’s a fine line between health information and body shaming, and I have felt like I have been balancing that tightrope my entire life.” When Kobie’s BMI classified her as overweight, she responded by exercising too much and eating less. As a result, she was undernourished, constantly thought about food, and couldn’t concentrate properly when studying.

    BMI is widely used in the medical community because it’s an inexpensive and quick method for analyzing health status and outcomes. Critiques that it doesn’t account for body composition, ethnicity, race, gender, age, or dwarfism are largely ignored. For instance, in 2013 the American Journal of Medical Genetics published a letter from several doctors—including Dr. Julie Hoover-Fong, the Chair of the Little People of America Medical Advisory Board. They advised against applying current BMI guidelines to adults with dwarfism as “inaccurate as a surrogate of body fat or predictor of health outcomes.”

    So how does a person with dwarfism assess a healthy weight? My husband Robert was denied entry into a Weight Watchers program because his doctor had no standard for calculating a goal weight!

    The weight for age charts published in 2007 for children with Achondroplasia dwarfism cuts off at age 16 and Achondroplasia only accounts for 60 percent of the dwarf population. What about adults and little people with one of the other 399 dwarfism types? We have no data to guide us.

    If I followed the weight chart for a 16-year old female with Achondroplasia, I’d be huge and barely able to walk. At the 50th percentile, I’d weigh 99 lbs (45 kgs) and have BMI of 43.5; at the fifth percentile, I’d weigh 92 lbs (42 kgs) and have a BMI of 40.

    So without an accurate measure of a healthy body weight, little people turn to alternative measurement standards, like hydrostatic (underwater weighing), skinfold pinches, waist-to-hip ratio, waist-to-height ratio, and neck circumference. But the accuracy and applicability of these measures to dwarfism is also questionable.

    Ten years have passed since it was reported in the American Journal of Medical Genetics that “Studies to address these issues are underway.” It’s time to move the BMI research needle from talk to research to results!

    Ready to dig deeper? Read:

    • Kerry J. Schulze et al. “Body Mass Index (BMI): The Case for Condition-Specific Cut-Offs for Overweight and Obesity in Skeletal Dysplasias.” Letter to the Editor, American Journal of Medical Genetics, Volume 161, Issue 8, August 2013. Pages 2110-2112. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/ajmg.a.35947.
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    Do You Get Your Clothes in the Children’s Department?

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    Standing on a sidewalk near traffic lights, Angela wears an off-the-rack cropped length purple jacket over a T-shirt with black Capri pants. The jacket sleeves were altered for a custom fit; the matching purple flowering trees in the background were a bonus touch of creation.

    Most little people don’t buy clothes at kid stores. We may stand at eye level with young children, but our dimensions differ drastically. At almost 30 years old, Katherine elaborated, “I am actually built like a woman. Kids’ clothing does not account for cleavage.”

    Even if children’s clothes do fit, dwarf adults don’t want to wear them. We have enough trouble being accepted for our age without making it worse by wearing juvenile clothes. Besides, 31-inches tall Katherine observed, “for the most part, [children’s] fashion made for people my size is smothered in unicorns and puppies and Disney Princesses.” At age 31, Cat’s frustration spills over when she confesses “having to resist the urge for violence when people suggest the kids section like it’s no big deal.”

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    So where do little people get their clothes? Although it’s possible to find clothes shopping in regular stores, it takes much longer. Sofiya described it well. “I usually look through almost every section of a store, try over 20 things on in the fitting room and come out with two pieces.” And, according to Katherine, “every once in a while there’s a diamond hidden amongst all the coal!”

    And it’s not a case of one size fits all. The over 400 dwarfism types come with variations in length of limbs and torso, weight, and curves. Different types need different styles. As a dwarf with a very short trunk, I don’t wear clothes that cut me off in the middle, or use horizontal lines or large designs on the fabric. Little people with Achondroplasia have an average height torso and shorter arms and legs; their issues relate more to long pants and sleeves.

    Because it’s so hard for Little People to find off-the-rack clothes that are affordable, comfortable, and stylish, our community shares shopping tips. Facebook groups are a great resource. For example, in the private group—LP Women Fashion, Shoes & Accessories—there were 40 comments answering a query about affordable places to shop for clothes that fit. Group members not only give store and brand names, but also share pics of themselves wearing particular items. The pictures help assess the usefulness of a tip, because we can see how close the buyer is to our body type and whether the tip will work for us.

    Despite being able to buy many clothes off the rack, alterations are often needed to shorten sleeves, pant legs, and the crotch. Ideally people learn to do their own alterations or sew from scratch, but for those like me who lack this talent paying a seamstress is money well spent. Thankfully, I have been blessed with many excellent dressmakers through the years.

    The ultimate wardrobe experience is being able to shop for clothes originally designed for little people. Although the price tag is higher, the expectation is that the product will be superior to clothes originally made for people two feet taller. Although I haven’t used any of the businesses listed below and cannot make recommendations, I’m delighted to share the following list of dwarfism clothing brands:

    • It Actually Fits, https://itactuallyfits.com, a clothing brand catering to little women where they can go online and find something that fits perfectly without having to worry about alterations.
    • Kathy D. Woods, https://www.kathydwoodsstore.com/, an online women’s clothing company showcasing fashions expressly designed for Little People with an impeccable fit for a variety of body types.

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    Hearing Aids: Lost and Found

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    Robert’s hearing aid enhanced sound of camel slurping in his ear

    On a flight from Baltimore, Maryland to Stuart, Florida, Robert took a tomato juice shower. We were seated in the bulkhead row when Robert’s sister, Paula, stepped past him, handed him her juice, and asked him to hold it. Robert didn’t hear her and was drenched when she let go the cup.

    Upon arrival at Palm Beach International (PBI) airport we were relieved when the scooters were delivered in working order, but shocked when Robert was also presented with his hearing aid. It was the first time Paula and I heard it was missing. Someone in Baltimore noticed it on the scooter seat and made sure it was returned along with the scooter at PBI.

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    Not all of our hearing aid stories have such a happy ending. Take the 1990s hearing aids that were crushed when I drove over them in the garage or washed and dried in the pocket of Robert’s pants. For some reason, they didn’t work after that. Thirty years later, I still check the pockets before placing his clothes in the washer.

    Advances in technology have transformed hearing aids from clunky devices costing hundreds of dollars to mini computers with sophisticated circuits and microchips costing thousands of dollars. They even have Bluetooth connectivity to cell phones, music players, and TVs. Crushing or washing today’s hearing aids—excluded from health insurance plans—would make this a very sad and expensive story.

    Yet misplaced hearing aids remain a common phenomenon in our household. After taking them off, Robert puts them down in various places. A couple of times, I’ve retrieved them from a recycle bin next to the dresser where they were placed. For the most part, they are spotted within a few hours. But not always. Recently, when one hearing aid was missing for a couple of months, Robert’s brother Mickey reminded him the aid was covered by a 3-year warranty. Thankfully, Robert made a successful claim to replace it two weeks before the warranty expired.

    The obvious solution would be for Robert to routinely put them on when he gets up and take them off when he goes to bed, takes a shower, or goes swimming. Not only would this habit give a predictable place for storing the hearing aids, it would also eliminate the stress of looking for them. Apparently it would also reduce the risk of developing dementia, falling, declining mobility, depression, social isolation, and anxiety. And the bonus would be improved communication with his wife! And if this routine breaks down, he could pay the extra for GPS locators on the aids.

    Robert counts among the estimated 48 million Americans with hearing loss, including the more than 30% of people between the ages of 65 and 74. His loss is attributed to a complication from his Spondyloepiphyseal Dysplasia Congenita (SEDC) dwarfism diagnosis. Although he’s been wearing hearing aids since he was in college, the severity of his hearing loss has increased since he retired.

    So how do you relate to Better Hearing and Speech Month?

    Read more of our marriage adventures in the second book in my dwarfism trilogy, PASS ME YOUR SHOES: A Couple with Dwarfism Navigates Life’s Detours with Love and Faith. https://angelamuirvanetten.com/pass-me-your-shoes/.

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    Dignity

    Dwarfs Object to Being the Plaything of Society as Bullfighters or Frisbees

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    When I read about dwarf bullfighting in Spain, I had the same visceral reaction as when I heard about dwarf tossing in Australia. I never imagined either “sport” as acceptable entertainment or that dwarfs would be willing participants. I’m pleased that comic dwarf bullfighting didn’t come to my attention until after Spain outlawed “shows or recreational activities in which people with disabilities are used to provoke mockery or ridicule from the public.”

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    The parallels between dwarf bullfighting and dwarf tossing are striking. In both cases dwarfs were seen as objects of ridicule. Dwarfs in Spain dressed as firefighters or clowns to chase bulls at public spectacles designed to be humorous. Dwarfs in Australia, America, and the United Kingdom window-dressed with a useless padded helmet and were tossed like a human frisbee to the roar of a jeering crowd.

    In March 1985, I was talking about dwarf tossing when I wrote: “Little people are tired of being ridiculed and the butt of people’s jokes, and object to being treated as a plaything of society.” In April 2023, Firstpost Explainers expressed a similar sentiment about dwarf bullfighting. “People with dwarfism were subjected to mockery in public squares in our country, passing down the idea that it is OK to laugh at difference, to so many girls and boys who go with adults to see these shameful performances.”

    According to news reports, Spain’s Royal Board on Disabilities pushed for the ban on dwarf bullfighting. Jesús Martín Blanco, a person with dwarfism and director general of the board, denounced the fact that children were the target audience of people with dwarfism presented as buffoons. “If the children are going to laugh at a person in a bullring, they will surely laugh at me when they come out.”

    Support for the ban also came from the Alpe Achondroplasia Foundation representing those with the most common type of dwarfism. The parent of a 29-year-old dwarf with Achondroplasia is reported as trying to get these shows banned since her son was born. She tells of people pointing out her son on the street and erroneously describing him as the bullfighter fireman. The legal advisor to the foundation warned against building an unhealthy society by teaching children that it’s a laugh to make fun of those who are different.

    As with dwarf tossing, vehement opposition to the bullfighting ban came from the dwarfs involved in the spectacles. Tossees and bullfighters both argued against removing their livelihood. Prior to the legislative vote, dwarf bullfighters staged a protest in front of parliament in Madrid, Spain pleading “Everyone should be able to work at what they want.”

    In both cases, the onus was put on the legislature to decide if the participants right to work in freak-show style entertainment outweighed the rights of nonparticipants to be viewed as viable candidates in respectable occupations without being branded by the indelible and degrading images of bullfighting and dwarf tossing. Thankfully, legislatures in Spain, Florida, and New York came down on the side of human decency and outlawed these morally bankrupt practices.

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